hello semua! it's me again :-)

Hi everybody!
How's ur weekend? Mine was great. Balik Yong Peng, pergi rumah Apeng's sister kat Segamat, pergi wedding Baya, semalam tgk bola and not to forget had fun chit-chat with beautiful girlfriends. They are a beautiful peoples inside and out. Last night me and my girlfriends were talking about current issues.. one of the issues that crop up is "wearing hijab". A few days earlier, I read an article at Sisters In Islam (SIS) website regarding this matter. After reading and digesting it, I reserve my comment and let you decide by yourselves. Anyway, here's my conversation with the girls.

Mrs X : Bila I pakai tudung, I x nak pakai baju yg ketat and sendat2.

Mrs Y : Ye la. Pempuan yg pakai tudung pun ada gak perangai yg x senonoh. Baik x payah

pakai tudung camtu.

Me : What do u mean by tak payah pakai tudung? U mean, we can do anything ke
kalau tak pakai tudung. Mcm "tiket" boleh buat apa2 je ke? Err.. rasanya bukan sbb
org tu pakai tudung.. itu diri dia.. I hate those yg suka judge appearance org. Tak
pakai tudung jahat, pakai tudung baik or vice versa.

Mrs Y : Bukan la.. tp kalau pakai tudung and perangai cantik.. kan lg elok kan?

Me : Hello.. we are human! Human make mistakes.. no one is perfect! I dont like when ppl
point to me like.. "err u tak pakai tudung.. takperlah itu ini" Oh well.. I'm a muslim.. I
still have my limit.. takkan tak pakai tudung we can do EVERYTHING?
No.. no... we are Muslim.. we need to obey Allah.. NO EXCUSE.

Mrs X : No I mean, I dont want to be like some girls.. yang dah pakai pastu bukak pastu
pakai.. ader hari nk pakai.. pakai.. ader hari tak nak pakai.. tak pakai. Gi overseas bukak tudung, gi office pakai tudung..

Me : Arent we the same? We wear hijab during school times, and after that we tak
pakai..? My personal opinion, at least they are willing to wear hijab! Tak kesah la
kejap ke tak.. overseas ke malaysia ke... the point is.. they pakai la jugak.. tak mcm
kita ni.. tak pakai langsung!

Mrs Y : a'ahh kan... hmm bila la agaknya nk sampai seru :p

Me : Let me be honest.. hijab is a must/wajib.. so no question about it kan? Bila tak
pakai.. we choose not to wear.. not because seru tak sampai ke aper.. we knew it is
WAJIB...tp err.. KITA YANG TAKNAK :p

Mrs X : a'ahh kan... btol gak tu.. antara nak ngn tak nak je kan.

Mrs Y : I've seen so many people who don't wear hijab and are nice people, and so many who wear hijab and are bad people.

We smiled to each other then.
Silence.

Me and Mrs X: hahahha.. no no.. it just what ppl think only.. sbb yg pakai tudung tu senang u nak point.. kalau yg sexy tu, u nak point cam org tak heran.

Silence.
But that again is just my opinion and as always I know my opinion could be wrong. I know that saying this will probably hurt or make some of you who are reading .. geram or marah.. if anyone has been feeling offended with it, then I am sorry. It was not my intention. It is just my personal opinion.

In life there is a checklist in order to become 'solehah'. I take my hats off to all woman that wears tudung since they can already tick one item in the checklist,it also gives a message to others that you are proud of your faith as a muslim .Clap Clap..good job girls! As for me, its quite hard to describe and explain my predicament and situation. But, deep in my heart the urge to wear a tudung/hijab/headscart is always there. I'm praying that with guidance from Allah and support from my family and friends, the time will come soon enough. Amin...

Last but not least, please enjoy our photos at Sue's wedding and Hanim's bro reception at Dewan Felda :-)

Leen, you are so pretty!look good in red,huh!!
Bertuah saper dapat Leen kan..baik..pandai jaga budak,pandai layan anak2..ehem2


ermm..a mother of..4?5?6? errr..tak nampak mcm ader anak pon ! Kalau kata takda anak pon org percaya.Gosh, so proud of her!Amazing ok:-)

Tunggu OK

Hi everybody!
I wanted to blog about this pretty lady and her handsome son :-) ;Ryan's Birthday and Ryan's Post Party. ....TOO BAD..I cant upload other photos yet..I hope everything gonna be OK soon!

so..stay tuned for more!

Love.

Our princess turns 2

Hi everybody!
Saturday, 9th November was our niece's birthday party. We celebrated it at Critter Land, Seri Kembangan.It was a fancy dress costume party. I love costume party because...(OK I need a reason to wear those weird bajuan and I need a place where I can dress in an unusual costume and have fun) Come on, bila lagi nak melaram mcm ni kan?

But anyways,a day before the event, we went to several places to find our baju. My husband was undecided ..nak jd Spartan ke batman ke..superman ke orang minyak ke :p.... :-) Cari sana sini..sampai ke Abrakadabra..tup2 kami beli je kat balloon buzz.Habis cerita.If anyone want to rent a costume, you may drop by at Century Fiesta, Hartamas or Abrakadabra, Puchong. They have an enormous collection of costumes ranging from.....biasa2 to elegant to outrogeous futuristic .

My sister in law decided to celebrate Zahra's birthday in a small group which means it is strictly for established selection of peoples.Reason? She wants the party to be memorableand exclusive. So who's the guest?Hmm..let see...
The host :-)
Miss belly dancer and Mr.Dracula.
Mr.Dracula: Im thirsty..I want blood!
Miss belly dancer : Not now Mr. Dracula. Wait until post party will ya.
ohh..MJ?..


Mr Bean and..err wife? OK..this is funny because as I remember, Mr.Bean is a single guy!:p

Presenting..*ehem*ehem*
The beautiful Cleopatra and her loyal husband ,King Apeng.
YES We ARE THE Egyptians!

Miss belly dancer managed to persuade Catwoman to show up and notch up the hotness level. This sexy meow is one of my favourite! Purrr.....and many more.

I'm so full from eating that meehun,macaroni and etc, nevertheless I'll still manage to find room to eat this piece of cake!

It is widely believe that Egyptian loves cat. This might be the owner of the sexy Catwoman. :)
For Cleopatra, too much American Next Top Model :p
This is Cleopatra when she is mad.Dont you dare to run away from me!Come here little kitty!

Kazim was sleeping through out the birthday party. But, as soon as he opens his eyes his imaginative and playful mind shift to overdrive. He had so much fun in the balls pond.





Cleopatra, where do u keep Catwoman? I want to smooch her. Mmuahh...


We really enjoy playing dress up and had so much fun. Everybody that attends was really sporting and put in extra effort to search for the costume. Kudos to the organiser for a successful party. We really had a blast!!!

Love.

Kazim is One

Salam !
On his birthday, we didnt go anywhere.Mula2 tu..ada la call our sister-Cik Na. nak ajak kluar but too bad..she wasnt in KL.So,we spent time at home, swimming, playing games and all home activities.My brother and sister in law came to our place and brought a gift ..ermm..untuk saper lagi..kalau tak Kazim!

Now Kazim loves to bang two cubes together,open drawers and explore our cabinet!He has so much fun opening and closing the cabinet, doors and..haihhh...semua benda nak bukak! He really enjoy putting objects into basket and takes them out,cruises furniture,throws a ball and pushes away what he doesnt want.
this one from Tok Chik( my sister in law's aunty)..Thanks! and below...tadaaa..from baba Chik & mama faz...
Look at him! He is so happy!
suka sgt walau kaki tak sampai...

To baba Chik and mama faz, Kazim loves your birthday gift so much! Million thanks to both of you..and Achik too.Oh, we are so flattered!..

Love

Kami Bukan Hanya Kenal di blog :-)

Salam everybody!
This post also soo outdated :=)
I met Rinie..ermm..9 years ago. I knew her through my ex-scandal/bf/crushed,Mr. Brad Pitt..MUAHAHHAH BUT..listen here..I chose to marry Mr.Zaman Shukur.Gillerr perasannnnnnnn?~ Hahhah..But seriously, I knew Rinie through my ex*smile* AlthoughI hate my past relationship , Im so blessed and I did realized that's how I met Rinie.If not, I never would have met Rinie!I now firmly believed that everything happens for a reason.

She's a wonderful person inside and out.We met again after 9 years for the first time during his first son's birthday. Gosh, she's still the same person--sweet, kind, soft-spoken..(.OMG the list goes on)..and so pwettyyy!..ermm,needless to say, she's every guy's dream!
But anyways, the cukur jambul sgtla indah semuanya.The ceremony began with marhaban and cukur jambul in the morning and later,the arrival of guest who were warmly welcomed by Rinie's husband and families.

Upon completion of the cukur jambul ceremony, we were ushered to their dining areas to enjoy their sumptuous food spread.We were comfortably seated at around the tent.I met Anita( she's also my childhood friend), Aira,Diana, Kak Siti( my senior:=), Lea, Diah( yeahh I knew this gal so long too!) at Rinie's place. I cant believe I dont have any photos with Diah and Anita!DEMMIT!
.OKlah, let the photos do the talking :-)

isnt she so pretty?

Aira! wake up!! :p Dont seat and sleep :-p

It was truly a day. Akhir kata, again and again congrats to Rinie and husband on your second child! One of these day I hope we can enjoy each other company like the good old days.
Love you babe.
Muahhhs.

Love

Surat Buat Mu Temanku

Dear Diella,
I hope you like your birthday gift.I know we can't see everyday padahal duk taklah jauh mana pon.. but I cherish our friendship. Thanks for being my girl friend. YES, I have to admit, recently I meet and make some new friends---girls,you know who you are!!I've been bless in a sense that all my new friends is very understanding and I do enjoy every moment I spend my time with them. We click instantly and I feels like that I knew them for ages. We share some common interest and it does help in developing a chemistry. All in all its been great!
But, it doesn't mean that I forget about you. You have always been my girl friend and we have such a long history.( You know we kinda like..Blair Waldorf and Serena Vanderwoodsen :p)We face so many hurdles and obstacles in life and through thick and thin together. Although I never been so showy of my gratitude for your every little actions for me, no words could ever say the splendid feeling you always made me feel. Please forgive me if at times I displease you.
Thank you for the many years of beautiful friendship and more to come, insya'allah.

Love,
Fadd

ayie's birthday dinner

Salam everybody!
Im back!Back from where? hmm..from lala land! AHAAAHAHHA.I really need to find my mojo back.gosh...WOW it's been a while hasn't it? Life with my super duper active son seems very busy.Okay Okay..that just only an excuse *smile*
Erm, it was last month, Ayie invited us to join her birthday dinner at The Grind, Bangsar Village 1. The place is new to us since we never been there.
The food? I decided to try their famous burger for the first time.. not bad at all!
We had fun talking to each other, gossiping...etc..erm.you know, do things girls love to do*wink*
I can't think of anything to wear that night, so I rummaged through my closet and find this particular top that I wore during my pregnancy. With a simple pin, its as good as brand new :). Once, my husband told me, "Its not about the clothes that you wear but how you wear it".Yeah yeah..everybody says so!!


yummy birthday cake from Just Heavenly!A kiss from her beloved husband,.Auuwww so sweet! Im melting..Mizan had never done such a thing before ..!erm ..what i mean is..he never did it in front of us.

Im a dream walker :-)I'm trying my very best to show my love to u, Kazim. I don't have anything else to add other than the birthday celebration was wonderful. Just enjoy the photos.

batch mate & partner :=)

Kazim has a soft spot for Uncle Mizan.

A birthday present for the birthday girl.

Last but not least, we had a blast night with a group of wonderful people.I really enjoyed their company.
Love.