Monday, December 27, 2010

hello semua! it's me again :-)

Hi everybody!
How's ur weekend? Mine was great. Balik Yong Peng, pergi rumah Apeng's sister kat Segamat, pergi wedding Baya, semalam tgk bola and not to forget had fun chit-chat with beautiful girlfriends. They are a beautiful peoples inside and out. Last night me and my girlfriends were talking about current issues.. one of the issues that crop up is "wearing hijab". A few days earlier, I read an article at Sisters In Islam (SIS) website regarding this matter. After reading and digesting it, I reserve my comment and let you decide by yourselves. Anyway, here's my conversation with the girls.

Mrs X : Bila I pakai tudung, I x nak pakai baju yg ketat and sendat2.

Mrs Y : Ye la. Pempuan yg pakai tudung pun ada gak perangai yg x senonoh. Baik x payah
pakai tudung camtu.

Me : What do u mean by tak payah pakai tudung? U mean, we can do anything ke
kalau tak pakai tudung. Mcm "tiket" boleh buat apa2 je ke? Err.. rasanya bukan sbb
org tu pakai tudung.. itu diri dia.. I hate those yg suka judge appearance org. Tak
pakai tudung jahat, pakai tudung baik or vice versa.

Mrs Y : Bukan la.. tp kalau pakai tudung and perangai cantik.. kan lg elok kan?

Me : Hello.. we are human! Human make mistakes.. no one is perfect! I dont like when ppl
point to me like.. "err u tak pakai tudung.. takperlah itu ini" Oh well.. I'm a muslim.. I
still have my limit.. takkan tak pakai tudung we can do EVERYTHING?
No.. no... we are Muslim.. we need to obey Allah.. NO EXCUSE.

Mrs X : No I mean, I dont want to be like some girls.. yang dah pakai pastu bukak pastu
pakai.. ader hari nk pakai.. pakai.. ader hari tak nak pakai.. tak pakai. Gi overseas bukak tudung, gi office pakai tudung..

Me : Arent we the same? We wear hijab during school times, and after that we tak
pakai..? My personal opinion, at least they are willing to wear hijab! Tak kesah la
kejap ke tak.. overseas ke malaysia ke... the point is.. they pakai la jugak.. tak mcm
kita ni.. tak pakai langsung!

Mrs Y : a'ahh kan... hmm bila la agaknya nk sampai seru :p

Me : Let me be honest.. hijab is a must/wajib.. so no question about it kan? Bila tak
pakai.. we choose not to wear.. not because seru tak sampai ke aper.. we knew it is
WAJIB...tp err.. KITA YANG TAKNAK :p

Mrs X : a'ahh kan... btol gak tu.. antara nak ngn tak nak je kan.

Mrs Y : I've seen so many people who don't wear hijab and are nice people, and so many who wear hijab and are bad people.

We smiled to each other then.
Silence.

Me and Mrs X: hahahha.. no no.. it just what ppl think only.. sbb yg pakai tudung tu senang u nak point.. kalau yg sexy tu, u nak point cam org tak heran.

Silence.
But that again is just my opinion and as always I know my opinion could be wrong. I know that saying this will probably hurt or make some of you who are reading .. geram or marah.. if anyone has been feeling offended with it, then I am sorry. It was not my intention. It is just my personal opinion.

In life there is a checklist in order to become 'solehah'. I take my hats off to all woman that wears tudung since they can already tick one item in the checklist,it also gives a message to others that you are proud of your faith as a muslim .Clap Clap..good job girls! As for me, its quite hard to describe and explain my predicament and situation. But, deep in my heart the urge to wear a tudung/hijab/headscart is always there. I'm praying that with guidance from Allah and support from my family and friends, the time will come soon enough. Amin...

Last but not least, please enjoy our photos at Sue's wedding and Hanim's bro reception at Dewan Felda :-)

Leen, you are so pretty!look good in red,huh!!
Bertuah saper dapat Leen kan..baik..pandai jaga budak,pandai layan anak2..ehem2


ermm..a mother of..4?5?6? errr..tak nampak mcm ader anak pon ! Kalau kata takda anak pon org percaya.Gosh, so proud of her!Amazing ok:-)

14 comments:

LEENEEL said...

Uhuukkk. That comment is not necessary ok! Geli I baca.

yaNa MaLeK said...

fadd, baju u cantik la!! hehehe kazim dah basarrr :)

your reader said...

hi fad. u r so lovely. been ur silent reader, since forever. haha.

bout the hijab thingy, like mine, i wear it because of Allah, not to please please the people. and i just decided to wear hijab few months ago. before this, i dalam kategori pergi kerja pakai, balik rumah confirm cabut.

ok fad. wish you all the best and happy new year!

Melea said...

Hi Fad,

mudah mudahan Allah mendengar doa Fad.

Myself dulu pun bukan nya "baik", tapi Allah beri hidayah. Alhamdulilah...

semoga Allah memberi hidayah buat semua umat-Nya ...insya Allah aminnn

AIRA HANIZA said...

rasa mcm dah lama sgt tak jmpa u sebab rmbut u dah pnjg laa...hehehe

ederq said...

fadd, i like the way u think. sbg org pki tdg, i never judge org based on what they wear. because ive seen a lot.
apa2 pon kita mmg tak ada hak nak judge org n other's choice.
it's really up to u
:)
kiss kazim skettttt

yaya said...

well...well..well fad hah bila cakap pasal tudung memang wajib tutup aurat tapi tu la degil tak pakai walau tau berdosa, i salah seorg darinya kekeke. but i will wear it soon and i hope :)

haneem said...

Dear Fadd,
I always pray for u that one day it will be your choice. All the best!

Anonymous said...

hi fad.

take small baby steps. start with ur clothing. pakai pakaian yg menutup aurat. slightly lose fitting. lengan pjg, suar pjg. mane2 baju yg terdedah, give it away.

pestu.. jgn la buat hairstyle yg pelik2 yg bukan tudung friendly. coz how r u going to wear tudung (if u choose to in the future), if u end up focusing on making ur hair look good? sbb nnt u ade this feeling nak show off ur hair je kan. bukan nak hide it from people. tunggu org puji rambut u.. blabla. ini human nature la ye.

simple2 punye haircut sudah la. bila pakai tudung, u kene ikat rambut.. so yeah.. no point in getting an awesome haircut. kalo layered tu okla. tp kalo pjg kene ikat jgk. buat sanggul.

sy tak brp gemar bila org ckp dia tak ready. coz when r u going to be ready? its not about being ready, but about doing it! jgn tunggu lame2. jgn tunggu hidayah dr Allah, coz some people may not get it. niat nak bertudung saje tp tak take 1st step, sampai bila nak jd kan? takut terlambat je. pakai selendang ke dulu. tak kisah la nmpk jambul ke.. asalkan u at least try to cover up. lame2 makin tutup.. makin tutup. and at last fully covered.

hopefully, u understand why i'm telling u all this? awak cantik orgnya, tp lg cantik kalo bertudung. :D

DaZzlingLilLy said...

i pun setuju dgn u...cuma nak /tak nak jer..

jetsetter said...

ano,
OMG..thank you so much! :-)

Drama Mama said...

orang pakai tudung kutuk orang tak pakai tudung. orang tak pakai tudung kutuk orang pakai tudung. whenever will it end?

My husband and I always tell each other, just think of it this way :

If you do something, let say, tak tutup aurat (tak semua yang PAKAI TUDUNG tutup aurat ok!) and God ask you about it later, do you think you will get away with excuses like "Daripada I pakai tudung tapi buat benda tak elok, baik I takyah pakai tudung!". Berani ka nak cakap depan Allah macam tu nanti? Itu excuse utnuk menutup kesalahan sendiri di dunia, hereafter confirm tak terlepas.

So babe, I'm so impressed with u because u don't agree with such opinions. Alhamdulillah, moga kita semua diberi hidayah oleh-Nya.

As for me? Nak improve jugak pakai tudung dengan menutup segala aurat, bukan takat rambut ja. :-)

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Anonymous said...

hi fad, u r so nice and lovely. I like your blog and opinion. About this hijab matter, wish u all the best. May Allah bless u.

Ceritera Kami said...

sis..ur are very cute...:)